How to...be an Effective Religious Education Teacher
Patricia Chen—Irvine, California, USA
RE Teachers: Always look for opportunities to give
to the lives of others!
Our children are the future of the
growth and development of the church. That is why we look for ways to nurture
them in the words of God. And as we come up with creative and effective means
to reach our children, we realize that the RE ministry is challenging work.
Sometimes, it stretches us to the limit. But RE teachers are the vessels God uses
to touch His young followers. We are the building blocks of the RE ministry. We
have been given the task of bringing our students to know our Lord and to help
them build a solid relationship with Him.
By improving the way we interact
with and present ourselves to the students, we can build ourselves up to be a
more effective RE teacher.
I. Genuinely Hear
As RE teachers, we
often think of our job as imparting the words of God through Bible stories.
While that is crucial, we also need to think about other ways we can reach out
to our students. For example, can more be accomplished at a certain moment by lending
a willing ear and connecting to a needy soul? In other words, do we take time
to listen to our students? Do we take the time to genuinely hear their concerns
and questions?
Sometimes, our
students are searching for answers to a deeper need. And if we are faithful,
God will give us the right words at the right time—healing words, or words of
wisdom just when our students need it most. But in order for those moments to
happen, we need to genuinely hear what our students are saying to us today. We
can only accomplish this if we have a relationship with our students that goes
beyond just lecturing them during class time.
We need to
demonstrate our concern and care both inside and outside of class, whether it
is through a casual conversation or through structured fellowships. And when
any one of our students shares his thoughts and ideas with us, be ready to
listen.
Practice Good Listening
1.
Look at the person while he or she is speaking
2.
Put your hands on your lap
3.
Nod and smile to signal you’re listening
4.
Do not interrupt
II. Set an example for the students
by the quality of our speech
Wisdom is often
measured in words. As teachers, we should be ready to listen, but we should
also be ready to speak truthfully in love and choose our words wisely. Saying
the right words is important. The right words can empower, redirect, and build
up one’s soul.
The timing is also
vital. We can say the right words but at the wrong time. Or we can say the
wrong words, though the timing is right. Therefore, we need to ask God to help
us discern the right timing and the choice of words. And sometimes, it may be
wise to not say anything at all but to just be there for our students and pray
with them.
Proverbs 17:28
says, “Even a fool is counted wise when he holds his peace; When he shuts his
lips, he is considered perceptive.” More often than not, leaving things unsaid
can be the wisest course of all.
“He
who heeds the word wisely will find good, And whoever trusts in the LORD, happy
is he” (Prov 16:20). The first half of this verse is about words in speech and
the things we do. If we speak wisely and do wise things, we will find good. When
we speak or act wisely, we are careful to consider all related circumstances
before acting, judging, or deciding.
When
we are careful—considering and pondering before we speak to our students or do
things with them—then we will find the abidance of God. The truth is, acting
wisely will make us draw closer to God. If we trust, have confidence, and are
secure in the Lord, we will be happy and blessed.
As we teach in the
coming weeks, listen to what comes out of our mouths. Are we speaking
encouraging and uplifting words to others that are seasoned with the salt of
God’s love and truth? Do our words have the capacity to direct our students
towards Jesus? Let us remember the words of Paul: “Let your speech always be
with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each
one” (Col 4:6).
Although the work of an RE teacher
is challenging, we can prepare ourselves by asking some reflective questions:
Do we spend enough time getting on
our knees to pray?
Are we spiritually cultivating our
lives?
What are we doing to prepare our
lessons?
Are we doing visitations, making
phone calls, or emailing our students in order to reach out to every child?
Is our servitude a sweet-smelling
sacrifice to the Lord?