How to Strengthen Your Campus Fellowship
I do not consider myself an expert
in campus fellowship, but it is a topic near to my heart. Being actively
involved with my college fellowship played a big part in shaping who I am today
and, looking back, was the most meaningful part of my college years.
Thankfully, when I became
coordinator of my fellowship, two of my close friends in church were also
coordinators at their universities. By constantly keeping each other updated on
events and sharing our challenges, we were able to form an indispensable
network. Here are some of our tips.
Start with prayer
Prayer is the single most important
ingredient to any campus fellowship. I feel strongly about this because, during
my first year at campus fellowship, the coordinator was an alumnus who could
not come often given that his work was far from campus. Even so, I felt that
the campus fellowship was so spiritually alive and filled with love because I
knew he prayed a lot for it.
Even for a flourishing fellowship,
regular prayer together is absolutely necessary for its maintenance. I
witnessed the changes and felt the abidance of God when we had regular prayer
nights besides the weekly Bible study meetings.
Gather a few members together to
pray for unity and growth. These prayers can be held on campus or at members’
apartments. Our Lord promises us that, “where two or three are gathered
together in My name, I am there in the midst of them”
(Matt 18:20). Do not be discouraged if the prayer group starts off small— just
keep it consistent.
“I feel
like my campus fellowship lacks unity.”
“Be shepherds of the church of God
which he bought with His own blood” (Acts 20:28). A campus fellowship is not
connected because of similar personalities or interests. We’re one because
we’re spiritually united by His blood, which is a different bond than all other
groups we may associate with.
Lack of cohesion is natural when
campus fellowship members are unfamiliar with each other or when the group has
grown larger and impersonal. However, there are many ways to build bonds among the members.
Older members should care for the
younger members—for example, introduce the first year students to your favorite
study spots and useful services on campus.
Take advantage of the fact that
you have brothers and sisters with you at the same school. Support your fellow
brothers and sisters in their other club activities, such as attending their
performances or competitions. Plan a campus fellowship outing to a nearby
museum, or go hiking and enjoy God’s creation.
Just remember that fellowship
needs to be in the light (Eph 5:8-13). Spending time with church brothers and
sisters is not automatically edifying. Be conscious of whether the way you use
your time together glorifies God, and try to engage all members instead of
forming small cliques.
“Campus
fellowship is boring.”
A campus fellowship should be
founded on the studying of God’s word. Bible study should remain the core of
the meetings and be the attracting factor, but it doesn’t have to be the same
all the time.
In our campus fellowships, we
have found varying the format to be very important. During Bible study, you can
engage the members through large or small group discussions, sharing before or
after, having members draw their responses to the passage, or making posters of
the main points.
Mix in a couple of special
topics that are relevant to the lives of the members. A possible topic could be
“How to choose your career.” Invite fellowship alumni to speak or brothers and
sisters from nearby local churches. Have a praise session once in a while and
teach new praise songs.
Have members suggest and vote
for the book to study. Make sure that there are life applications throughout
the Bible study. If the group is small enough, everyone can take turns to
answer questions. You will find that this helps you to get to know each other a
lot better.
“Our
bond is okay, but we don’t have a spiritual connection.”
We want to care for and
understand each other as if we are the same body.
Now the body is not made up of one part but of
many… so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts
should have equal concern for each other. If one suffers, every part suffers
with it; if one is honored, every part rejoices with it. (1 Cor
12:14-26, NIV)
Learning about each other’s
needs is important to understand how to help one another spiritually.
Sometimes, members may want to
build a spiritual friendship but are not used to talking about God or His work
in their lives. Help the members get used to this by having them share
God-related happenings in the past week before starting Bible study.
Try pairing everyone up into
prayer or sharing buddies and rotate partners as often as seems necessary. Make
sure that the focus is on spiritual friendship. After church seminars or
events, have members share their reflections and what they learned. With
practice, it gets easier.
Post the current Bible study
schedule and share event photos on the campus fellowship website. If
maintaining a website seems too difficult, using a blog works just as well! Encourage
each other during the week through emails. Send edifying testimonies or
articles.
Have someone be in charge of
collecting and emailing weekly prayer requests. Everyone will feel more united
because they are caring for each other in prayer—you know others are doing the
same for you!
“We
find it hard to get our name out there.”
At student organization fairs,
reserve a table with the school and prepare a poster with photos from past
events and flyers advertising upcoming fellowship or church events. Rutgers
University Campus Fellowship prepares freebies, such as pens with the
fellowship website printed on them. Whatever is left can be distributed among
members to pass out to classmates.
Many schools allow pre-approved
flyers to be posted around campus and have newspapers or online event calendars
that are good places to advertise. Some schools even offer websites for
registered campus organizations. Make sure that the fellowship’s meeting
information is up-to-date and that a contact person is assigned to answer
inquiries.
Volunteer as a group for
community service at school or in the area, such as at races for cures or at
soup kitchens. Sing for the elderly or visit a hospital. If you have the funds
to make fellowship T-shirts, this would be a good time to wear them. In
addition to being a wholesome activity for the members, it is also a good way
to shine for Christ and to let other campus organizations know of our church.
Finally, don’t give up! Like
Paul, let us “press on, that [we] may lay hold of that for which Christ Jesus
has also laid hold of [us]” (Php 3:12b).
“Our
campus fellowship seems to lack direction or a goal.”
Campus fellowships require a
lot of effort to remain balanced because the needs of the fellowship change
often. It is good to have an evaluation every few months to clarify the purpose
and goals.
If possible, try to have one at
the beginning and end of each term. The evaluations can be casual and fun over
a themed dinner or dessert. At the beginning, ask everyone to share their
personal goals and group goals. Ask them to say specifically how they think the
group goal can be reached together.
Plan activities that work
towards these goals. Review the goals periodically to remind the members and check
on progress. Have members anonymously fill out evaluations on whether the
fellowship is progressing toward the goals, and ask them to offer their
suggestions.
With members changing as people
enter and leave each year, consider the various levels of spiritual knowledge
amongst members of the group. Choosing books and church publications that
include questions for discussion may be helpful for a fellowship with many
members who have not have had much experience leading Bible studies.
Campus fellowship is a good opportunity for
us to learn humility and to repay Jesus’ love and follow in His footsteps. If
we care deeply about the growth of the campus fellowship, let us reflect this
in prayer.
God does not call any of us to
“save” the campus fellowship. God only calls us to serve as He did. I learned
this lesson the hard way when I had many plans that I wanted to implement but
became discouraged when others seemed indifferent or attendance was low. “‘Not
by might nor by power, but by my Spirit,’ says the Lord Almighty” (Zech 4:6).
When the fellowship is successful,
it is not because of our capabilities. Likewise, when things seem like they
could be better, it is the abidance of God that can turn things around.