ARCommitting Yourself to Christ
How should you choose which college to attend? How can you maintain your commitment in Christ throughout college?Deciding which college to enroll in is a very critical decision in a young adult's life. There are many things to take into consideration, such as the academic prowess of a school, the tuition, and most importantly the location. Is it near a church? Is your faith strong enough to endure those tempting college years away from family and friends? Although traveling afar for higher education may be a priority during high school, God will direct you in the path that He wants you to take.
easy making it into the school of her choice, but Danielle did it. The Ivy
League school she had always dreamed of attending would take her a couple
of thousand miles away from family, church, and friends, but the
invitation to this school was her dream come true, and she wasn't about to
turn their offer down. Her parents, though very proud of their daughter's
accomplishments, couldn't help but feel concerned about her future.
worried: "Will she be safe on her own? Will she have to face
loneliness? Will she end up finding a boyfriend, and will they be able to
keep their relationship pure? Most important, will she still be able to
hold onto God and her faith through all the temptations and stresses of
college?" Sending their daughter off to a place so far from church
and home gave them a feeling of total helplessness. All they could do was
hope that their daughter would hold steadfast to her faith in God, and
pray that He would keep their daughter in His tender care throughout the
spiritually critical four years to come.
College: The Great Exploration
The above story is one that Christian parents know and fear very
personally, and it's one that many of us who have made it through our
college years understand only too well. College is a tremendous
exploration in so many ways. It's an exploration of the world around us
that we make through our studies of science, language, history,
mathematics, humanities, and so much more. It's also a terrific study and
exploration of mankind that we engage in for better or worse, depending on
the people we encounter. It's an exploration of a newfound freedom,
especially since our parents don't have as much control over our spending,
our curfews, our daily activities, and our friends as they once had. It's
an exploration of our abilities to take care of ourselves financially,
physically, and emotionally. And, most seriously, it's an exploration of
ourselves in terms of who we are and where we really stand with our Lord
Yet if we
aren't careful, in just four years of college study a lifetime of learning
and growth through religious education classes, church participation, and
daily communion with God can wind up placed in the attics of our hearts,
becoming long forgotten and unused. We know this danger very well, but how
can we make sure that it doesn't happen to us? How do we keep our faith,
love, and service in Christ at the forefront of our college lives?
The Key to Holding On
Let your eyes look
straight ahead, And your eyelids look right before you. Ponder the
path of your feet, And let all your ways be established. (Prov
exploring and making our way through college, the key to maintaining and
increasing our relationship with our Lord and Savior is to strive to
maintain purpose and balance in our daily lives. As we prepare to enter
the college world, there are three critical commitments we must make to
ourselves and to our Lord Jesus Christ:
a college or university that will best affect our relationship with
our Lord Jesus Christ.
up a support group of brothers and sisters in Christ.
first priority to our faith in, relationship with, and
responsibilities to Jesus Christ, regardless of the obstacles and
distractions that may come our way.
strive to uphold these three commitments to ourselves and to Jesus Christ,
we are able to view situations and make decisions with strong spiritual
insight and discernment.
#1: Choose Your School Wisely
all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths. (Prov
some typical questions that college-bound students usually consider when
deciding on a college:
How does this
school compare to other schools in terms of its reputation?
is the tuition? Will I be able to afford to go to this school?
far is it from home?
I be able to afford housing and other expenses?
kinds of programs does this school offer, and is my major one of them?
college-bound students generally have to consider the above questions
when deciding on the right college or university to attend, but
Christian college-bound students have additional issues to consider:
far from home and church is this school? Will I be able to make it to
Sabbath services every week?
there a campus fellowship established by our members there?
there other brothers and sisters that I can regularly meet up with at
school, or will I be pretty much on my own for the next four years?
could happen to my faith should I become distanced from Sabbath
worship and brothers and sisters in Christ?
there things that I can do to prevent myself from slipping in my
relationship with Christ while I'm at school?
decision to attend a school away from home and church is difficult.
After much prayer, and after weighing all of the answers to these
questions, we may decide that, while the school we originally had our
heart set on offers much in terms of academics, it does not offer much
opportunity to receive spiritual companionship and guidance through the
church and its members. As careful Christians, we may have to make the
tough decision to narrow our search to schools closer to a church. In
other words, we may seriously need to make a conscientious sacrifice in
order to benefit our relationship with our Lord and Savior. And as
careful Christians, we need to keep our commitment to God first and
foremost when making this decision.
As we all
know, however, it's not always possible to study at schools near our
churches or its members, especially when such schools don't offer the
programs we need or want to pursue. In this case, it is even more
important for us to entrust our cares to God and to make our decisions
about attending a far-away school through a deep reliance on God's help.
We also need to begin searching for ways to keep God in our daily lives,
even though our circumstances might distance us physically from His
Commitment #2: Build
and Maintain a Strong Support Group
forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of
some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the
Day approaching. (Heb 10:25)
I grew up
in Tampa, Florida, and ended up attending the University of South
Florida-a school just thirty minutes from home-for my undergraduate
studies. I wouldn't say that I chose USF because it was the best school
to attend to earn my degree in elementary education. And I can't say
that I never considered moving away from home in order to gain greater
experiences of being on my own. In fact, during my high school years, I
had thought quite a bit about moving away for college and gaining my
independence. But in the end, though my friends were all going to
colleges out of state or out of town, I decided to stay in Tampa and be
close to my family and church. After all, I had a four-year-old brother
I couldn't bear to leave; our worship group was just beginning to form
there, and was in strong need of workers; and, well, my mother told me
that I couldn't go away….
sometimes wished I had gone away for school, I also knew that it was
indeed best for me to stay at home with my family and the new worship
group. Looking back, I realize that I truly wasn't ready to go away for
college-my faith was much too young to handle the temptations and
stresses. After growing up away from our churches because of our highly
mobile life as a U.S. Air Force family, I had very limited exposure to
our faith and a very limited knowledge of God and the Bible. How could I
have handled the pressures of college at the young age of seventeen, and
without a very strong background of faith? If I had moved far from a
support group of believers, how could I have kept myself strong in
Christ? My mother knew what was best for me, and I am so thankful to our
Lord Jesus for giving her such a strong spiritual love for me.
and the local believers in Christ became my support group during my
years of college, teaching, and then graduate school in Florida. I
believe that the experiences in Christ that I was blessed with during my
days with the church in Tampa are what sustained me through my years of
you choose to go away or stay home for college, it's important for all
believers to establish their own support groups during these critical
years. If you go to a school close to church, be sure to remain active
in worship services and church activities-make that commitment. If there
are other members of our church attending your college, establish a
campus fellowship-make the commitment to your group and to God to work
together to keep each other strong in faith. And if you find yourself at
a college far away from church, make the commitment to maintain contact
with other brothers and sisters through the Internet, letters, or phone
Commitment #3: Give
Greatest Priority to Your Relationship with God
And the world is
passing away, and the lust of it; but he who does the will of God
abides forever. (1 Jn 2:17)
commitment we must make to ourselves and to our Lord Jesus Christ is the
commitment to keep our relationship with Him first and above all else.
It's not easy, but it is always the most beneficial commitment to make
in the long run.
In Matthew 16:25-26, Jesus teaches us:
For whoever desires
to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My
sake will find it. For what profit is it to a man if he gains the
whole world, and loses his own soul? Or what will a man give in
exchange for his soul?
This is a teaching that we
always have to hold onto, especially when we face those extremely
difficult college exams, struggle through those challenging and rigorous
classes, meet our new groups of friends, take on that part- or full-time
job as a student, or find that special someone. It's so easy to
accidentally set God aside when we become so busy with everything that
campus life involves. Much too often, without even knowing it, we find
ourselves drifting further and further away from God because of our
preoccupations with our studies, work, and friends. That's why, from the
very beginning, we must plan a course of action to maintain a healthy
relationship with Jesus Christ. We must make the determination to carry
out the following preventive measures to ensure the stability of our
Remember to pray to God at least two times a day: once before you begin
your classes, and then once before you turn in. Use this time to really
communicate with God your trust, thankfulness, and openness to what He
has set before you. Ask Him to open your heart to feel how much He is a
daily part of your life. Place your concerns on Him, and acknowledge
that He is your heavenly Father, wanting only the best for you, His
Remember the Sabbath, and keep it holy. If you are near a church or
other brothers and sisters, make a deep commitment to keep the Sabbath
by attending services or gathering for Bible study and fellowship. Don't
allow other activities or distractions to pull you away from keeping
God's holy commandment. Schedule that dentist appointment, make those
camping plans, and postpone that shopping spree to the local outlet's
big sale for another day or for later in the evening. Your commitment to
God comes before that big half-off sale or that trip to have your hair
most of us know to avoid these obvious distractions, there are a couple
of others that commonly pull us away from keeping the Sabbath: working
and studying. Too often, we become trapped in our weakened fleshly
bodies and give in to the pressure to go to work or to study for that
huge exam on the Sabbath, rather than attend church or Bible study. Hebrews 4:9-11 warns us:
therefore a rest for the people of God. For he who has entered His
rest has himself also ceased from his works as God did from His. Let
us therefore be diligent to enter that rest, lest anyone fall
according to the same example of disobedience.
try to avoid working or studying on the Sabbath—it is a holy day to be
set aside for God and for our own spiritual rejuvenation.
Establish healthy and godly relationships around you. Be very cautious
about the friends you keep, relying on the Holy Spirit to guide you into
friendships that will benefit your faith. By establishing ourselves as
Christians, and by presenting our values and beliefs to others through
our daily actions, it will become almost automatic for us to weed out
common temptations and pressures from peers. And it will be almost
automatic for Christians, or those seeking Christ, to be drawn to us.
live in the world, but we must not be totally like those of the world.
If we find that our relationships with others are causing us to sin or
become distanced from our beliefs, we must learn to pull away from these
friendships immediately. At times, it's really difficult for us to
realize that our actions are becoming ungodly or that we are drifting
further and further from Christ; that's why we must rely on regular
Sabbath attendance and sermons, daily prayer, and the believers we keep
around us. These critical components of our faith can draw us back to
God through self-reflection as well as through loving corrections by
brothers and sisters in Christ.
Wherever we go and in whatever we do, we must always remember to keep our relationship with our Lord Jesus Christ at the forefront of our lives. We must make this commitment to ourselves and to God, so that we are always able to discern God's will in our lives, and so that we may always remain in Christ's love and salvation. In
Colossians 1:9-14, Paul wrote to his brothers in Christ at Colosse:
For this reason we
also, since the day we heard it, do not cease to pray for you, and
to ask that you may be filled with the knowledge of His will in all
wisdom and spiritual understanding; that you may walk worthy of the
Lord, fully pleasing Him, being fruitful in every good work and
increasing in the knowledge of God; strengthened with all might,
according to His glorious power, for all patience and longsuffering
with joy; giving thanks to the Father who has qualified us to be
partakers of the inheritance of the saints in the light. He has
delivered us from the power of darkness and conveyed us into the
kingdom of the Son of His love, in whom we have redemption through
His blood, the forgiveness of sins.
Let us consider this message from Paul as every Christian parent's prayer for a college-bound child, and every believer's prayer for a college-bound brother or sister. May you be filled with the knowledge of God's will through spiritual wisdom and understanding. May you live a life worthy of the Lord, pleasing Him in every way. May you bear fruit for the Lord. May you endure and patiently walk in your studies with Christ. May you always remember to honor and give thanks to Him. And when all is learned and done, may you receive your inheritance in the kingdom of light.
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